This question has probably been thought of many times, but never asked.
YOU, THE GUY are:
1) Nice, soft-spoken individual, but outgoing once you get warmed up
2) Minimal dating experience, but you've been in long term relationships (You have a hard time getting women, but when you do you know what to do)
3) Do not care for the limelight
4) Do not care so much for material things
5) Not very observant of your environment (oblivious)
6) You have a big ego only when ';threatened';
YOUR GIRLFRIEND is:
1) High-maintenance, and needs the limelight to show people she is present (Center of Attention and needs to control the every situation all the time)
2) Very experienced in dating and knows how to pick and choose men at will and anytime - and dump them when the timing is right (goes through dates like photocopy paper in a copy machine)
3) Very good at observing and analyzing situations (especially at the bar and club scene)
4) Has a liking for designer clothing (materialistic)
5) Big ego all around (charm has a big part to play in this)
With that in mind, here's a scenario:
Let's say you two have dating for less than a year and she wants to break up. The primary reason is that she wants to date other guys (reasoning might be because she is tired of you. She can get any guy she wants by the way.
Now, in order for her not to feel guilty enjoying the ';spoils of war'; she wants to help you out. She tells you that she will go with you to places such as coffee shops, supermarkets, bars, and nightclubs, just to name a few places, and teach you how to flirt and pick up women so you can move forward with your life without her. And as an added bonus she is willing to set you up with her friends (sounds condescending if you ask me).
But anyhow, she is willing to do that for you so that you don't get left out in the cold.
Would any of you guys be willing to let your girlfriend do this for you once you two break up?
I WOULDN'T! The suggestion of wanting to help me get women is already offensive as is. But I would like to hear input from everybody, especially guys that this might be happening to.
HONEST AND THOROUGH ANSWERS ONLY!WOULD YOU GUYS ALLOW YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO SET YOU UP ON A DATE AFTER YOU TWO BREAK UP?
Well, as long as you two ended your relationship well then it's a sweet thought, though personally I'd decline the offer. If she wanted to go to some bars or something as just my wingman (I've gone to bars with girls for this very reason) but the idea that she'd 'teach' me to get a girl is kinda insulting. Same thing with setting me up with one of her friends, seems too much like a pity date. Well, good luck
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