i met a guy on line we met in person, We had this irresistable connection and attraction.First he moved to fast, then I fell into what he wanted. He just moved here from out of state and is unsettled for employment.he told me he needed space to think, let me know I was on his mind and he misses me. A week went by, he was coming to see me then backed out.So I asked him, '; when you said you needed space to think'; Was it about me or that your interest in me has changed.As many people are telling me - space means he doesnt want you. He replied with '; neither';, I need to do whats right in my life without pressure........I wasnt pressuring him - just responding to him wanting me. He said he will talk to me later this week maybe about getting together, have to see how it goes. Yet, at the same time I see he is on line , a adating site and changed his profile picture.... I gave him the opportunity to tell me up front, that hey its ok if you have changed your mind about me - what does all this mean.....In between this, He has told his daughter about me or who I am when on the phone ( she is 4), has asked me about my kids, and how things are also has showed me his banking , stuff people dont usually do if they're not interesed. I know he is worried not having a job and watching his money go without any coming in.. Just want the truth.. Do I hang in there or move on ????????Hang in there or move on ??????
It is time to move on.Hang in there or move on ??????
If you are tired of not knowing what is going on and you do not know if he likes you or not then just ask him up front. If he can't answer or chooses not to then you don't need that drama in your life.
unemployed with kid,on a dating site? isnt that site called ';lowered expectations'; find a winner not a talker.
Move on!!
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