How do you move on with your life when your boyfriend broke up with you because he was moving?

My now ex-boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago not because he didn't love me anymore, but because he *thinks* he is going to move to a different country in a year or two with his family. I kept saying that things could change and his family might change their mind, so we should just wait to see what happens, but he said he cannot be with me anymore because his family had just suffered a great loss a few months ago and he had to focus on them right now. He also doesn't want to get even closer to me because he doesn't want to move with the stronger regret of leaving me behind. How do I stop holding on to this hope that in a few months or so, things will change, he and his family will stay, and he and I will get back together? How can I ever even think of finding someone else, knowing that he will always have my heart? I know I'm only 19, but we were in love and we planned on getting married in a couple of years and having kids. How do I let go of that?How do you move on with your life when your boyfriend broke up with you because he was moving?
Wait, did he break up with you because he ';may'; be moving in a year or so or because his family suffered a loss? Sounds like he may be making excuses. It doesn't make sense that if he really cared about you to make different, separate excuses when YOU keep pushing the matter. See, if he stuck to one central theme, it may be more honest, but if he says let's break up now because of ___, you say no, let's make it work, and he says no, there's also ___ reason, he's just making up excuses for not being with you. And he's trying to be nice about it. He's also obviously not planning on having you in his life for any sort of duration anyway, if he's already planning on how he'll feel when me 'moves' (if indeed he does).


Move on. Don't EVER let yourself become defined by your relationship with another person. I get from your question that you are pretty young. Take it from an old hag who's been your age and all ages in between yours and mine: there are other guys out there. Don't become miserable over some guy, EVER. Be happy while you can before you get old and have reasons to become miserable ;-)


(kidding on that last part: good luck.)How do you move on with your life when your boyfriend broke up with you because he was moving?
Plans often change.You are still young. MOVE ON with your life.This isn't the end. It's a new beginning.
Honey it sounds to me like he's using this as an excuse to let you down easy instead of just breaking up with you. Time will heal your heart. Just hang in there sweetie.
I know the beautiful hope of young love...I guess it can work sometimes if its really strong...But just realize the balance of the relationship between you and him. Think this way, if you were in his situation how would feel about staying with him? If you think you would do anything to stay or at least keep in touch with him or wait for him if you were in his situation, then that means that your love for him is stronger than his love for you...And if thats so consider someone who would better correspond your love...
There's a quote about setting a bird free and if it returns it was meant to be or something like that... I think that applies to your situation.
i think he don't love you anymore...


if not...why he REALLY want to broke up with you?


i think you should live your life to the fullest and enjoy it! ^_^


concentrate on your study...


then if God bless you...


you will find your partner of life...


good luck!


(^^)mechan
It is so hard to keep going when you have your heart broken but you must. Your boyfriend no longer feels the way you do. He gave you a lot of excuses but the bottom line is he wants to move on. My advice to you is to be strong. Don't call him and beg him for another chance. This only makes you look less appealing in his eyes. The needier you seem the less likely he will change his mind.





Go out with your friends and look as cute as possible. Make sure other people who know both of you see you having fun and they will let him know you are alright. Flirt with guys and be as happy as you can. Your heart will mend in no time. Believe me, at your age love can come and go, and you will have many loves before you get married. Most people don't get married until 27 anymore. So you may have scared off your boyfriend who is still too young to settle down.





good luck