Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How can you keep your mind off a finished relationship with that someone you love?

I was with a guy for a year and a half we have been broken up for a few weeks, what things can i do to keep my mind of it. Because everytime i think about it, i just feel like there is no hope and i won't ever be happy again. So what activities or things should i do to help me move on?How can you keep your mind off a finished relationship with that someone you love?
I went shopping! And a lot of it. lol. I wanted to be alone and I couldn't think of anything else to do but shop. lol. It also made me feel really good. As sad as it may seem, buying new clothes that make you feel good on the outside will make you feel good on the inside. It's shallow, but it's true. Ladies, you can deny it, but you know deep inside it's the truth.





And as for the answers like, find a new guy. Tried it...didn't work. Only compared new guy with old guy. And it isn't fair for the new guy. He's trying to get to know you and all you're thinking about is the old guy. Don't want it to happen to me, so I wouldn't do it to them...again that is. Tired it only once.How can you keep your mind off a finished relationship with that someone you love?
Healing takes time and the pain lessens some. Go out with your friends, make new friends - get out and exercise! Go biking, hiking, swimming, roller blading, anything to get out!
it's normal to think of old relationships. but in order to move on try a new hobby. something new and out there. maybe belly dancing or knitting or gardening something that you can do in your spare time to keep you mind busy. anything works!!!
Find a new guy and start spending alot of time with your friends. throw all your time into something like a new job or crafty stuff where your so focused on that thing, you don't have time to think about him.
read a book, it will distract you
find someone new

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